Updates For Jacob

Update from Kieva 1/10/ 2026 

I wanted to update you on baby Jacob. We are still in the PCICU. He has been taken off of the Bipap machine and put onto a CPAP machine. The infection he got weeks ago that was in his lungs has done some damage that's going to take a long time to heal from. He also fought sepsis a couple weeks ago from the same infection that got into his blood. He is doing better now though. Yesterday we had a big meeting for him and we all agreed that despite our best efforts Jacob is not going to recover his respiratory function fully in the immediate future. In the interest of getting him home and out of a hospital bed with tubes strapped to his face 24/7 we have decided it's time to get him a tracheostomy. This is a good thing and a bad thing. 

My husband and I both have to do extensive training on Trach care.

He's changing so much! I can't wait to see everything off of his face and him smiling.  Kieva

From Grandma Donna, I would like to add that this is a difficult thing to learn Trach care and especially when even being in a hospital makes some people uneasy much less doing a procedure on your child.  Please keep Kieva and her husband in your prayers to help them to learn this special care for little Jacob. 

You can find some pictures of Baby Jacob and the first article  in the forum  called A special Thanksgiving wish. 

Thank you, Donna for posting this. I just saw your post today after Sharon  told me she read the update.  I appreciate you updating people. I was just telling my husband that Jacobs first birthday is going to be a big one because his first year of life is likely going to be the roughest for him (and us). 

I would like to post more pictures but it is hard to find pictures currently that I can post that won't be disturbing to some because a lot of them are difficult to look at, especially now while he's in the middle of his struggle. Later, they likely won't be as hard to look at because they will be a testament to what he's overcome. It's pretty widely known among the Down Syndrome community that the first year or so of life is usually the roughest (I'm glad to know he won't remember it). I do hope that in a few weeks there will be more pictures that aren't hard to look at as long as a trach doesn't bother people. Having the trach will make it so that Jacob can now focus on learning to play and simply be a baby. 

While I was home sick with a cold last week, his doctor called me very excited because Jacob smiled while occupational and physical therapy were working with him! The nurses , doctors, and therapists have all grown quite fond of "Mr. Jacob". Jacob likes working with the occupation and physical therapists. They do fun things with him. I am grateful for them also because they teach me how to safely play and work with him while he recovers and they teach me ways to help strengthen his muscles.

 Transferring to another hospital is going to be hard because we have become quite fond of our nurses, doctors, and therapist who know Jacob so very well. I don't think I've met one person here that I don't like. Take, for instance, Dr. Cardarelli who is a very skilled pediatric cardiologist and performed Jacobs heart surgery....he is about as humble a man as I've ever met yet the thought that he has the strength of mind and emotion enough to perform these life saving surgeries on BABIES is mind boggling. The nurse who made Jacob his Thanksgiving art project and unknowingly gave us his first footprint since we were not afforded that luxury the night he was born. Or Mr Colby (one of his nurses) who saw a stuffed animal that reminded him of Jacob, acquired it, and quietly tucked it in next to Jacob one day while I was on another home visit. I wonder in the mundane routines of their days if they truly understand how much they change and touch people's lives....

Our Sharon is doing something very 1940ish in that this Saturday she's coming to visit Jacob and I (again). I am grateful for this blog introducing us! She and I hope to try our hands at crocheting as we visit bedside. Thank you to all those who have found an interest in Jacobs journey and have kept us in your thoughts and prayers. 

New Message from Kieva,

Jacob had his surgery today. I have a sinus infection so I could not be with him in case I was contagious. That was very upsetting but I did get to zoom meet with the doc and nurse after he came out of the surgery. He did well. I got lots of screen shots of him and he looks so good. He looks peaceful and almost looked like he was going to smile! It makes me feel so much better to see his face bare and him breathing comfortably. He struggled with that mask. It wouldn't seal right and it would blow air all over his face. They had to put padding all under the masks and straps to avoid pressure sores. It had to be re-adjusted multiple times a day...all that was so much for that little man to bare! But now his face is free. 

Grandma Donna Wrote, I am so happy Kieva that this surgery has now been done and Jacob has his beautiful face free from that irritating mask.  This is going in the right direction now to getting home and having all of your family together.  We will keep Jacob, you and your family in our prayers and for your sinus infection to completely heal so you can be back with Jacob.  

Much love, Grandma Donna

Oh, I only just now saw this.  Must have somehow missed it when it was initially sent.   I have thought about you all and wondered how things were going.  It's so good to hear that Jacob's surgery is over and that soon you will be going to the new hospital where you and your husband can learn the skills to take care of him when he gets home.  Tiny steps but leading in the right direction.

Take care.

Thank you for your thoughts and kind words, Victoria W. Tomorrow he will have his first trach change. The docs and nurses have been looking forward to this day because he should be fairly well healed and they can start allowing him to move around a bit more. For the last week he has been petty sedated and mostly sleeping. 

Today I came back to the hospital from a home visit and he was wide awake. He was looking around intentionally and really engaging with the nurse and I. He looks like a totally different baby since his trach surgery. I feel like any day now he's going to be playing and laughing..... Like we might actually have the worst of all this over with. 

Next week he will be 5 months old. I had imagined before he was born that we might be in the hospital for a couple months but 5 months....it's been a long long journey and we likely have a couple more months still before we can get home. 

Grandma Donna Wrote, 

So happy to see a new update on Jacob, that must have been so wonderful to see Jacob looking around and engaging with the nurse.  Oh how that made my heart happy!  Charles and I constantly keep you, Jacob and your family in our prayers. 

Kieva, you and Jacob remain in my prayers. What a comfort to have the care of such good people for Jacob! He's a beautiful boy.

Hello everyone! Thank you Margaret P and Grandma Donna. Jacob first trach change went beautifully. He is being weaned off of sedatives now which can cause some rocky moments due to withdrawals but it hasn't been too bad so far. 

Jacob and I are hunkered down and riding out this storm at the hospital (of course). The docs think it best to convert his feeding tube from a G tube to a GJ tube. I'm not well versed on all this but I do know that instead of feeding straight into his belly he will be fed straight into his intestines to reduce the risk of reflux and aspiration pneumonia. They were considering doing a surgery on him called a Nissen but they don't think he requires that at this time. That surgery looks serious so I hope he never requires it! They were aiming to take Jacob to the OR (again) tomorrow for the conversion but that is unlikely now because of the snow and limited personnel available. Therefore, sometime early this week they aim to do the conversion. They say it's not a real complicated procedure especially since he already has a G tube so I'm not too worried about this procedure. This is one more step closer to going home that will help keep him safer in a none hospital environment. Hopefully the conversion is the last time he sees the inside of an operating room for a very very long time! If I'm counting right this will be the 7th time he's been taken to the OR and put under anesthesia for surgery or other procedures. 

Jacob has discovered his toy! I placed a toy that I've dubbed "His everlasting gobstopper" next to his head just to see if he would even look at it.  A few minutes later I heard rustling in his bed so I went to check on him and he had found a way to get the toy close to his mouth so he could nibble on it. He was looking very intently at it and even knocking it about with his hand. I was so excited to see him exploring. Now that his delirium has pretty much gone away I am starting to see his personality come out. I can't wait to see him playing more and more. 

As always, thank you for your continued prayers and interest in my little boy. God bless. 

Grandma Donna wrote,

Awww Keiva, I cried a happy cry about the toy (Heart) that is so encouraging news, this moment must have felt like climbing to the top of a mountain.  I hope that this next surgery goes well and we are hopeful that he will not need that other surgery.  

I feel this wonderful little personality wanting to emerge from Jacob.  Much love and warmness, Grandma donna

Kieva, I can't believe 5 months have already passed.  I was surprised to read that Jacob will be 5 months, I guess this week!  He has come a long way and sure has had a challenging start!  He is so sweet looking!  I am trying to decide if he's a red head or more like a reddish brown?

I hope that his upcoming surgery goes well, and that life gets a little easier for him, you and your family.  I look forward to seeing your little guy's personality blooming!

Hello all! Thank you Debbie. Jacob's hair was dark brown when he was born but it is lightening and does seem to have a hint of red in it. My daughter had reddish colored hair when she was born and it lightened to a blond color now. I suspect Jacob will settle into a dark brown with reddish tints. But only time will tell. 

Jacob is scheduled for his procedure here in a couple hours. They had originally planned it for earlier this week but the snow storm that hit this region meant less personnel were available at the hospital. They might take him in earlier than 9 AM though but for now he's washed up and resting as he awaits their timing. 

The sock on Jacob's hand is to prevent him from pulling on the yellow tube on his face. In a few hours we shouldn't have to be concerned about that.

Grandma Donna wrote, 

Kieva, we have been keeping Jacob in prayers for this new procedure.  I hope that everything is going well today.  We are praying for your strength too and hope the your sinus infection is clearing fully and out of your body.  Hugs to you and Jacob, Grandma Donna 

Thank you Grandma Donna. Jacobs procedure went well. It was done and over within an hour. But we did have a rough afternoon. He took a good hour to an hour and a half to calm after and he was warm to the touch. We gave him Tylenol and took his blanket off of him. He fell asleep but then woke up hot to the touch and thrashing around. I tried everything to calm him but eventually I asked the doc for any medication he could be given to calm him and treat his fever. We also put cool rags on his forehead which he seemed to enjoy. He usually hates cold stuff. Seeing him that worked up really stressed me out. I worry about his heart when he's that upset. They think the fever was just an inflammatory response to the procedure. After he calmed, he slept for a good while and woke later cool to the touch and calm. I am certainly glad that is over.

The docs are ordering a helmet to help shape his head because the left side of his head is very flat due to his favoring that side. We have not addressed this with positioning as well as we could have because his comfort was more important through this journey than the shape of his head. But now we can focus on those less dire things. Early next week the docs hope to transfer him to another hospital for recovery and home care training on my part. This will require another ambulance ride. I'm grateful that each ambulance ride he has had has never been while he was in a life or death crisis. 

I called Jacobs name while he was sleeping and managed to get half a smile and a picture of it. He's been showing more and more "smiles" though I'm not sure they are under his control yet. I live for those smiles. I included that picture below. The red mark on his face is from the tape that was taken off during the procedure. 

what a beautiful boy!

Grandma Donna Wrote,

Kieva, I am so glad that procedure is done and over with, the fever and Jacob being upset had to be very concerning to have another what does this mean moments.  Moving Jacob to another hospital is a happy and sad time, to remove him from the care of these wonderful nurses and doctors but knowing this next step is going to get you home.  We will keep praying, for Jacob, for you, your family at home, your husband that has been juggling work and family.  May God fill you with strength.

Hello Everyone. I figured I probably should update these forum because there has been a change in plans. Late Sunday night and early Monday morning Jacob started showing major signs of delirium and very quickly spiked a temperature. His blood pressure plummeted and his heart rate raised sharply. 

At first they were thinking his raise in temperature was due to routine vaccinations given the day before. But as it went higher and all his other vitals started getting weird they quickly realized he was likely going septic again. They started antibiotics quickly and even ended up putting him on a paralytic and sedative to calm him as he got through that. They took samples to test for infections. So far all respiratory viruses they've tested for has been ruled out. They think it might be his PICC line that's been in for a month. So that was removed. 

He's been hooked up to all kinds of medications, fluids, and monitors. Even put him on a mat that regulates his body heat by the flow of water of varying temperatures. Today he is doing a lot better. They still are trying to see if the PICC line was the source of infection of not. But he seems to be responding well so far. It looks like we likely won't be transfered to the other hospital until early next week if all goes as planned. The good news is, this is not heart or lung related, as far as we can tell, so this event is just a bump in the road before we are on our way. 

I tried updating all this yesterday but for some reason it didn't post..I might have just neglected to submit it properly. Thank you for all those following Jacobs journey and continuing to keep him in your prayers. 

Grandma Donna wrote,

Thank you Kieva for the update so now we know more about what we should pray for.  I hope they get this figured out so you can learn more about the things that can cause Jacob to have issues so you can have some insight and get ahead of things for when Jacob does get to go home.  

Sometime the page will time out if you start typing and leave it for a bit.  I have had it to do that when I am commenting, that is the only thing I can think of.  Warm hugs and love, Grandma Donna